I have written before on the subject of intercessory prayer. I talked of the three areas of this type of prayer that seemed to be of interest:

• Who/what to pray for?
• How to pray for them?
• Why pray for them?
The first post talked about 'Who/what to pray for'. The second of the three was about 'How we pray for people/situations.' And now for the third - why intercede?

It will probably seem obvious to some why we should pray for the welfare of others but there are some who puzzle over this. These are some of the questions that are asked:

- If God is all-knowing, why should we have to ask for help for others or for difficult situations?
- If God knows the desires of our hearts, why should we need to communicate them?
- If our prayers are not always answered, how can we go on praying in faith?
- Can God have a change of mind if we intercede? What does that say about God's nature?
- Does intercessory prayer affect the destiny of other people?

This is one area where looking at the word 'intercede' might help us. The English word for intercession comes from the Latin 'intercedo', meaning 'to come between', 'mediate' and 'to interpose on behalf of'. Intercession is a form of representative prayer where we represent other people or situations before God. It doesn't mean that we dictate the outcome of something, but rather we bring the issue/person before God and then pray as Jesus taught us - that 'your kingdom come, your will be done'.

Of course, the chief reason for engaging in intercessory prayer is because Jesus interceded for us and taught us to follow his example. In John's gospel we read:

Christ prayed to his Father on the night before his Crucifixion, "May they all be one: as Thou Father, art in me, and I in Thee, so may they also be one in us" (John 17:21).

Jesus then goes on to pray for all those that would believe through the testimony of the disciples - you and me!

I ask not only on behalf of these, but also on behalf of those who will believe in me through their word, that they may all be one. As you, Father, are in me and I am in you, may they also be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me.

So if its a good practice for Jesus, I guess its a good practice for us!

Also, the fact that we are interceding for others - bringing them before God - means that we must ouselves be open to God and what God requires of us. It is often through us that God's will is done in the world. So we have in Proverbs:

Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy. (Proverbs 31:8-9)

We are called not only to prayer but to action - that must surely be the full meaning of 'to intercede' - 'to interpose on behalf of'.

For me it also helps to think of the doctrine of the Trinity when thinking about intercessory prayer. God is three persons in one God. God is communion - there is sharing and communication within the Godhead. This communication existed before we did - before there was communication between humans (and other creatures, come to that). God does not actually need us to communicate to - God is complete and perfect in communication within the Godself.

And we are created in God's image. Not that we have more than one person within us but that we are called to the same type of communication as exists within the Godhead. Intercession is one form of communion - sharing a common life - being connected to one another through Christ and to God through Christ.

And finally, we have the teaching of the early Christians to guide us. In Romans, Paul speaks of how Jesus continues to intercede for us, even after his death and resurrection:

It is Christ Jesus, who died, yes, who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us. (Romans 8:34)

And the writer of Timothy encourages us to pray for those in positions of power and influence:

First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings should be made for everyone, for kings and all who are in high positions, so that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and dignity. (1 Timothy 2:l-2)

James has a slightly different - somewhat personal - way of putting it:

Pray for one another that you may find healing yourself. (James 5.16)

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At the risk of going on for too long, I'd like to leave you with the following quote by Metropolitan Kallistos (Ware) of Diokleia:

…Isolated, self-dependent, none of us is an authentic person but merely an individual, a bare unit as recorded in the census. Egocentricity is the death of true personhood. Each becomes a real person only through entering into relations with other persons, through living for them and in them. There can be no man, so it has rightly been said, until there are two men in communication. The same is true, secondly, of love. Love cannot exist in isolation, but presupposes the other. Self-love is the negation of love. As Charles Williams shows to such devastating effect in his novel Descent Into Hell, self-love is hell ; for carried to its ultimate conclusion, self-love signifies the end of all joy and all meaning. Hell is not other people, hell is myself, cut off from others in self-centeredness.

Bishop Kallistos Ware, The Orthodox Way, pages 27, 28.

May God's blessing be with you as you intercede for others.

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A short while ago I wrote a post on this blog about intercessory prayer. In it, I talked of the three areas of this type of prayer that seemed to be of interest:

• Who/what to pray for?
• How to pray for them?
• Why pray for them?

That particular post talked about 'Who/what to pray for'. Well, this is the second of the three and I'm thinking about 'How we pray for people/situations.' Those of you who find this area very easy might well be thinking, 'How? What does she mean, how? You just do it!' Ah, I wish it were so simple for me. And so, for any others who struggle with this area, here are three ways I have discovered to help.

This first way is the method I often use myself - it involves visualisation:

Once you are quiet and still in prayer, imagine God's hands held out in a cupped manner. Then (you have to be a bit Gulliver-ish here) think of the person or people you wish to bring before God in prayer. Imagine they are small enough to sit or lie in God's cupped hands and picture them there. I like to imagine them peacefully sleeping there.

Next visualise placing your own hands round God's hands and just allow yourself to feel... to feel whatever it is you do feel - compassion, love, perplexity, sadness - whatever is there inside you. And speak to God about what is on your heart and mind about the person/persons.

Then let the mental picture fade, before moving on to the next person or situation you wish to pray for.

Lighting candles is another way that people sometimes pray for others. These sorts of candles are called votive candles. Maybe you're not familiar with a church which has a votive candlestand available. But if you are reading this, then you do have access to use an on-line version. OK - not quite the same effect - but it can be means of focussing your thoughts and spending some time praying for someone. Try it at this site:
Light a candle
or, if you wish the person to know you are praying for them you could try this one:
Post a prayer

A third suggestion is to use posture to help you. Instead of sitting or kneeling (or lying for those of us who like to go to sleep praying!) try standing. Intercession is partly about representing the person before God. Stand before God, open to God, and speak your prayer out loud.


And may God bless you as you intercede.

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I am rubbish at intercessory prayer! It’s one of those things at which I’ll never be a natural. – unlike a friend of mine who slips into it so naturally that she recently took to drawing lots as to who she would pray for that day!

No, seriously - her list of people for whom she felt drawn to pray was so lengthy and taking up so much of her not inconsiderable prayer time that a very wise acquaintance of hers (not me) suggested that she wrote them all down on separate slips of paper, put them into a ‘hat’ and draw out a set number each day. Well, drawing lots is very biblical (Joshua 18.8-10, amongst others).

I think that I am on one of my friend's pieces of paper – that’s a lovely thought! So if you have a similar problem, that’s one idea to consider.

I’ll never have that particular problem. Random, wandering thoughts and nodding off are mine! So the next few posts on this blog are for those who, like me, struggle a little with the whole area of personal intercessory prayer. Now, there seem for me to be three particular areas of difficulty:

• Who/what to pray for?
• How to pray for them?
• Why pray for them?

As you might guess from the previous story of my friend, this particular post on the blog is going to concentrate on who or what to pray for.

Talking of friends, I had another friend (sadly, relatively recently deceased) who used an easy method for deciding who to pray for on any particular day. At the back of his diary was a single-sided monthly planner and he simply divided into each of the thirty-one days the names of people or situations that were on his heart – and, lo and behold, he had a personal prayer diary. Now, don’t be facetious and ask me what you would do in February!

I have a personal organiser, so I have decided that I am going to create an electronic version of my friend’s prayer diary. I’ll let you know how I get on with it.

A third friend (my friends are being very useful today) describes how he allows himself to hold one person before God in prayer and then simply ‘bounces’ from there to another person who comes to mind or is associated in some way with the previous person. Because I tend to think in straight lines (that’s why I’m in IT) I suspect that, if I tried to intercede that way, I might just pray for the same few people over and over again each day. But if you are a creative person who thinks in spreading networks or pictures, then this might work very well for you.

Some people pray through the news – bringing each situation to God as they listen or watch. You could do the same thing with a newspaper. Perhaps you have some tips you can share for deciding on the group of people/situations for whom to pray, and how you split them up over the days (if, indeed, you do split them).

Well, that’s covered some of the ‘who’ and what’! So.... coming soon to a blog near you – how we intercede for others.

With my prayers for my band of readers. (Now where shall I put you all in my electronic diary?)

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